When You Get to be My Age (May 24, 2019)

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When you get to be my age you realize that everything happens for a reason. The person walking down the road towards you, the person sitting on the bus next to you, the terrible fall you had at age ten that put you in a cast; everything has a purpose and everything is meant to be. There are no mistakes or mishaps. God put you, your neighbor, and even their dog in this world for a reason. Appreciate everything and take joy in everything. When you wake up to birds chirping, listen. When the sun is setting over the horizon, watch. When it is nine pm but there is ice cream that you want, eat it. Don’t wait for a special occasion; make today, this minute, a special occasion. Make today the day you start living. Don’t wait for the rain to stop, or for your kids to move away. Don’t wait for a good time, because when you get to be my age, you realize that the time is up and you didn’t live.

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